Understanding Tibet before meeting the Dalai Lama
Before meeting the Dalai Lama, immerse yourself in the past of his life or that of his people: the Tibetans. At the beginning of the 20th century, the independence of Mongolia and Tibet was proclaimed by the People’s Republic of China. Countries therefore create their currencies and their independence. A few years later, the communist dictator Mao came to power. Seeing that Tibet’s geographical location and its mineral resources are abundant, he decides to rescind the proclamation and wage war on the country.
The 13th Dalai Lama of the time refused, and a massacre of Tibetans and their culture took place for several years and more than a million of them were killed in complete silence by the Chinese under the orders of Mao. Temples are destroyed, villages burned, roads ransacked, and families killed. The 14th Dalai Lama, aged 17 at that time, was in danger of death and had no other choice than to flee through the Himalayas and reach India at Macleodganj. Since then, China has still not been tried for war crimes, and don’t ask me why because I don’t want to talk politics. But one thing is certain, it is that justice will be done to them.
And Tibet today?
Tibet is today deliberately “invaded” by Chinese settlers to dissolve Tibetan culture. There are around 6 million Tibetans there compared to 7 million Chinese. The political situation is tense, because for the moment neither the UN nor other countries are trying to stand up to China. The Tibetan government is in exile in Macleodgandj in India and is deciding what actions to take in safety to find a final agreement.
Meeting the Dalai Lama: a magical, timeless and moving moment.
Meeting the Dalai Lama is simple in approach but more complicated in reality. From Varanasi, while browsing the website of his holiness, I was able to write to him and obtain his e-mail address, at least that of his head of security. During my trip between Varanasi and Macleodgandj, I got an answer because I was there at the right time in the country. In addition, there were not many tourists in the country at this time, due to the change of Indian currency in November 2016.
The requests were therefore fewer and I benefited from this monetary deficiency that everyone was afraid of to do tourism, to make it my strength. I had a hard time in the country because I didn’t have a peaceful stay like those they already had, but what a pleasure to fight for what we love to do. I am an entrepreneur at heart. I never give up and when I have a project, I see it through to the end. I applied this state of mind with this dream of meeting the Dalai Lama, so hold on to your dream otherwise another person will take it from you.
D-day finally arrives
It’s December 5, 2016, it’s 7 a.m. and I’m a few minutes away from meeting the Dalai Lama. We are in front of a gate and an Asian man, 1.90 m tall in a black suit with the physique of an American football player, welcomes me to the Dalai Lama’s home. With a dark complexion, a closed face and a heavy, confident gait, he walks towards us. If you are ever as lucky as I was, you notice this man without any problem compared to the others who are « tiny ». In Macleodgandj, he is the parton at the entrance and don’t amuse yourself by taking him for an idiot. I saw one who paid the price, he quickly left.
Can you speak English? Welcome! This is the language to understand each other. The head of security, the Dalai Lama, almost all of them speak English. There were 10 of us strangers who got a response to see it, and we were all happy. An Australian, a Peruvian, an Englishman, 4 Indians (foreign Indians here, because it’s like an embassy), an American, a Brazilian and only me French. Mandatory passport in pocket, invitation letter, and here I am. After a body search without a camera, I am in the garden of his holiness. I’m not used to not being able to film what I’m doing, but the good news is that he has an official photographer. These photos are given to you free of charge in the afternoon at the temple security post. Ready to meet the Dalai Lama!
His holiness or “holiness in English” is there, and come and greet us in turn in single file. A white scarf with mantras embroidered on it is given to me. The moment comes when it’s my turn, and I am touched by the energy of this man, gentle, strong, and who transmits his to you at the first touch by the hand. I had never felt this way, even with a man of the church from back home. He takes my scarf and blesses it as a sign of the peace that he has represented since his Nobel Prize in 1989.
Five minutes that I will never forget
Just because we tell him that a French person is there, he says to me: “You’re the only one in the country, laughing.” He was referring to concerns about currency and had heard French people canceling their trips to India. I told him that: “I hadn’t met a French person since I arrived in India.” But I said: “I think there are others”, but he replied: “you are the only one I have seen in 3 months in India”. Then he spoke about his last visit to France and Tibet.
We were invited inside to talk and the discussion also revolved around Buddhism. Although Buddhism is different in Thailand, Tibet, Burma, through its wisdom, it brings common roots. And when you listen to it, it’s true. He also talks about other religions because this man is open to the world. Five minutes that I will never forget to put alongside the birth of my children, and the things that made me happy in life.
I wish you could meet the Dalai Lama like me. Leave your email address in the pop-up that opens on this page (refresh the page if you have closed it) to receive the free guide to India which will contain information on how to write this letter to his holiness and obtain this address.
Thank you for your loyalty, may happiness be with you.
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2026 Update — This article was the first
I published this story on December 5, 2016. At the time, no one in France had documented a private meeting with the Dalai Lama in this way — a solo traveler, no media, no organization behind him, who wrote to the head of security from Varanasi and obtained a private audience with His Holiness.
Since then, others have walked the same path. And some published their story after reading mine. Here’s the timeline:
| Who | Publication date | Platform |
|---|
| Alexandre Auger | December 5, 2016 | francejetequitte.com |
| Charlie | ~2017-2018 | Panodyssey |
| Exploring Beyond | ~2018-2019 | exploring-beyond.com |
| Noémie Philippe | June 2025 | Medium |
| CrossroadAdventure | 2025-2026 | crossroadadventure.com |
| Refuje Blog | 2026 | refuje.com |
Ten years ahead. This pattern repeats in everything I do: radio, the music label, the expat blog, the SaaS. I build, others follow — often louder, but always later.
This article, written in December 2016, remains the first public French-language documentation of a private audience with the Dalai Lama by an independent traveler.